I am saddened to announce the death of one of the Society’s Life Members, Richard Appleby, who passed away yesterday. Many of you, like me, will have fond memories of Richard, who was heavily involved with the SW Region, Premier List and South East Group in various capacities over many many years, being responsible for Appointments and Reappointments, and as a referee coach, amongst others.
Below is a message from Pat, Richard’s wife, that she asked to be sent on to everyone. Should you wish to reach out to Pat, please do so, or get in contact with me and I would be happy to pass any messages on or connect you.
The Society’s thoughts are with Pat, and Richard’s family and friends at this time. A fuller tribute to Richard’s life with the Society and additional details will be shared in due course.
Peter Coulthard - General Secretary
Message from Pat Appleby
As a few of you know Richard, my partner in crime for over three decades, has been affected by cancer over the years. In the summer last year we got the devastating news that it was back, and back with a vengeance. It is no surprise to any if you who knew him that he vowed to fight 'the bastard' with all he had. And he did. It may have been a relatively short war but it was brutal. He fought with bravery, courage, humour and determination, but ultimately the cancer was too strong an opponent and he lost the last battle early Sunday morning.
Rugby was a huge part of Richard’s life for a very long time. He loved the spirit and camaraderie; the politics not so much. But as he would say, hey ho! He particularly loved coaching and was very fond of all his 'sons and daughters'. Mind you not so much if you phoned to report in on your game during Strictly! Please remember 'coach' with fondness.
To those who knew Richard well you know what to do - raise a glass (or 5) to him. Richard said his message to everyone is to live life to the full, laugh often, hug your family and friends and tell them you love them, and don't sweat the small stuff. You never know what is around the corner.
I cannot say how so very very proud I am of Richard. He certainly was 'one of a kind'
Pat